In this part of the world we do not have old age homes and we are taught to look after the elders. So what can you do in your home to make them comfortable?
Published: Fri 30 Oct 2015, 11:00 PM
Last updated: Sat 31 Oct 2015, 11:45 AM
Many cultures encourage the looking after of the elderly. In Asian and Arabic societies it is normal for the families to live together and look after their old parents or grandparents. The family values focus on binding the entire family together. In this part of the world we do not have old age homes and we are taught to look after the elders. So what can you do in your home to make them comfortable? Can feng shui help in improving their health?
The best way to allocate a bedroom to an old person is by following the flying star school of feng shui. A good sleeping direction can be suggested and room allocation can be done based on the detailed calculations of the house. However, if you do not have access to a flying star feng shui consultant, then the following general tips will be helpful in making your parents or grandparents comfortable.
To begin with, it is recommended to have the room for the elderly in a remote corner of the house away from the main door. There is always too much activity near the main door and it might keep them awake for long hours. Therefore pick a room that is quiet and away from all the hustle and the bustle.
The bed should be placed according to the health direction based on the kua number. The kua number can be derived from applying simple calculations to their date of birth. The derived number then indicates four good directions for healthy and happy living. One of these four directions focuses on improving health and it is recommended to place the bed in that direction. The bed should also not be placed directly opposite a toilet door or in line with the main door of the bedroom. This will help in avoiding strong energy flow hitting the bed directly.
Place the bed against a solid wall for support. Avoid placing it beside a wall with a window.
Avoid placing huge television or music system in the room for the old people. Keep the noise level low and environment peaceful. Having too much noise or activity is associated with the fire element and should be avoided in the room for the elderly.
Last but not the least; spend quality time with your old parents or grandparents. Nothing in this world is better than bonding with family and spending some time with loved ones.
Shivani Adalja is a Dubai-based wellbeing expert. She runs the Alignment Insitute which offers effective solutions that focus on stress management and overall well-being. Email align@shivaniadalja.com