'We miss those traditional songs, colourful streets'

Shaima's family Iftar and Suhoor are prepared with a combined effort of all the family members.

Despite this Egyptian family's 15-year stay in the UAE, they still miss their vivacious memories back home in the holy month of Ramadan, which is associated with vivid colours, lively songs and an overwhelming spirit of giving.
Shaima, born in Alexandria, Egypt's once capital and principal seaport, told Khaleej Times that she, her daughter and two sons, feel homesick all the time, and always recall their old memories of Ramadan.
"The things we all miss most are the pre-Maghrib Quran recitation, particularly by late Sheikh Muhammad Rifat, and Ibtihalat (supplications) before Fajr Prayer."
Shaima's family also miss the TV and radio traditional songs associated with the holy month - like 'Ramadan Gana (has come)' by popular singer the late Muhammad Abdulmutaleb. "We also miss the beautiful beaches, fresh air, colourful streets and vibrant markets of my dear city Alexandria where I was born and lived for over 22 years."
Shaima, who heads compensation and benefits section of a reputed university here, still remembers when she first flew to the UAE in 2004. "It was so tough to fly abroad; but in no time I felt I am still home when mixing with kind people here."
Shaima, a mother of three beautiful kids; Haya, 12, Mohammed, 10, and Yasser, 3, said they all help her in cooking and preparing Iftar and Suhoor meals all along the month of Ramadan. Shaima's mother, who is staying with them also helps her.
It is so tough to handle work duties and family affairs at the same time, she said. "But I can manage; thanks to Allah and my family."
The five-member family spends a fun-filled time at their home in Ajman. "We share the moment of gathering as was the case back home in Alexandria."
Al Misaharaty - the drummer who wakes people up for Suhoor late before Fajr Prayer - secures a special part of Shaima's memories back home in Egypt. "I remember the face, voice and special attire of that elderly man who used to wear a Kandura or Galabia and carry a small drum and stick in his hand. I and all my kids do miss this drummer here in the UAE."
Shaima still remembers when her big family used to get ready for the holy month. "We used to fix decorations and lights on our houses and share the same with our neighbours and the entire district.
"My family used to sit together after Iftar and watch a popular Fawazir or Riddles daily programme," she said. "No matter how happy time one spends here in UAE, such warm memories are unforgettable."
ahmedshaaban@khaleejtimes.com